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Maxine
Fayetteville to Thailand
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Why I Chose to Study Overseas for a Year |
| I wanted to study overseas in order to gain
perspective on my own and to experience another culture. I
think it's very important to be able to honestly evaluate your
country because that's the most common way countries' grow nowadays,
by applying other countries' ideas to their own. Often people
are able to see their own country better with physical distance. Our
culture shapes so much of who we are and I think that experiencing
another culture while I am young will help me to be a more rounded
person. As an artist, I know that so much of art is from the
subconscious. I'd like to have another culture's images and
philosophy imprinted on mine. |
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Around Central Thailand
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Well the trip to the East was fun. Here's the
highlights.
There was going to be a little bit of a problem to me getting to
Phitsunulok, the place where everyone was meeting for the trip. I'd
have to go to Chiang Mai and wait for the Chiang Mai YES to go which
would mean staying overnight somewhere and no one knew where this
would be. Luckily though Ajaan (teacher) Naiyana was coming to Mae
Sariang on vacation and agreed to take me back to Lampang and then
to Pitsunulok for the trip which she was chaperoning. On Saturday
morning I met her at her hotel (about three minutes from my house)
and we went with her, her coworkers, and Bud and Tibor, two YES from
America, to Mae Hong Son (about three hours of curvy, curvy roads
from my house). On the way to Mae Hong Son we stopped at a cave
where we couldn't take pictures. It was nice, but had been clearly
abused by tourists. Then we went to see the dok buatong fields, if
you recall this is the flower I'm named after and I was excited to
see them. I thought we'd walk through the fields ect, but it quickly
became obvious that that was not possible. THEY'RE HUGE! Most were
atleast a foot over my head! They had a little building which was
set up just so people could take pictures of the flower fields and
so that's what we did.
After that we drove the cuviest road in Thailand back to Lampang.
(This is the second time I've had to drive this road.) We arrived in
Lampang about midnight and I stayed with Ajaan Naiyana's friend Mae
Uan and her family. Mae Uan has three daughters, her oldest daughter
Nam Fon (it means rain water) is set to go to the US next year as a
RYE, Fang (which means rice hay) is 15ish and very fun and Ri Fern
is the youngest. I had a ton of fun with them. We went to a really
pretty market in Lampang and bought a bunch of food for Sunday
breakfast. Then the girls had a Chinese lesson (I don't know whether
it was Manderine or not) which I joined in on. It was their first
lesson too so it was easy to follow (or rather not as hard as it
could have been). I think I want to learn Manderin next. After the
Chinese lesson Mae Uan, Nam Fon, our Chinese teacher, Mary, and I
went to a ceramics fair. Lampang has good clay soil I learned and
has a really good ceramics department. I enjoyed it a lot. We went
back that evening to get a better look.
We rode a bamboo raft on a river (somewhere) and got to swim along
with it. It was a lot of fun, the current was pretty strong so you
could just float along with hardly any effort. It was a little scary
too, since we'd just been talking about how Thailand has crocodiles.
The most dangerous thing we incountered was an elephant turd
floating with us, at this point we made an effort and swam.
The king's birthday was the second day of the trip and almost
everyone in the entire country wore yellow (including us), the color
of the king. This was also the day we went to Kachanaburi where the
river Kwai is. We went to the graveyard for the European POWs. It
was sad to read the things on the graves which had been picked by
the families of the soldiers. We didn't go to the bridge because we
got lost... Ajan Naiyana told us left but we took the wrong left.
That night there was, they called a lights show but I don't think
it' fits, it was more like a reinactment using lights and sound
effects of the history of the Bridge over the River Kwai. It was
narrarated in Thai, so we didn't understand. They had built fake
watch towers and then "bombed" them. It was really amazing, we got
really good seats at a restaurant on the river.
We went to Wat Pra Gaeo, the temple of the emerald Buddha, in
Bangkok, but couldn't go to the palace because it was closed for a
ceremony because of the king's birthday the day before. Wat Pra Gaeo
has the largest peice of sequential art in the world (it was torture
that we only got an hour to look at the entire Wat, I really want to
go back and try and read the mural). It depicts the Ramakien, the
Thai version of the Hindu holy book Ramayana. I took a lot of
pictures of the paintings.
That's it for the highlights. Now onto Christmas and New Year's.
I was reminded that December is Christmas season in Bangkok with
Christmas lights and music in several places. I'd forgot about it.
In Mae Sariang there are actually quite a few Christians, because
there's a lot of missionary run hostiles for hill tribe children to
live in while they go to school, so there were a few celebrations on
Christmas Eve. I went to one at the government building (they use
the parking lot for most festivals) people sang Christmas carols and
there were vendors with snacks and presents for children (I assume I
didn't stay til the end). I watched some carollers come to the house
across the street and sang "I Wish You a Merry Christmas" in Thai.
On Christmas day I gave my host family presents and Pii Nung gave me
mine, a hat (which was appreciated since it's actually kind of cold
here). At school there was a Christmas Pagent in the afternoon.
Several of my friends dressed up as Santies (a girl Santa Claus,
they add -ie to any male English name to make it a girl, Casanovi is
another example). It was a big deal since it meant they could wear
"sexy" (i.e. not the school uniform) clothes to school. Some of my
other friends put on a play about Rudolph, from what I understand
Rudolph was lost and got found. I thought it was hilarious.
Christmas night my host family made a special Christmas meal, suki.
God it's delicious. They chop up fish and sea food, then make soup
water and put it in a "crock wok" which you put the sea food you
want and wait for it to boil. Then you put it and some soup water in
a bowl of green Thai noodles. It was a good Christmas, not like any
I've ever had.
Fast forward to the Friday before New Year's, on this day people
brought a present to exchange. The presents were numbered and then
everyone drew a number out of a box while there was show (I had to
pick 5 times because the numbers I picked didnt' have a present to
go with them). I gave a box of Oreos (my host sister thought it
would be a good presents and my friend's agreed, I don't know who
recieved it) and I got a little teddy bear which I named Nam Tan
(sugar). All of the classes put on a show. Most of my closest
friends where in my class's show. It was really good, my friend Jup
Jang lipsynced with a song while the other's dressed up as Thai
maids and danced.
The next day my host brother's daughter from his first marriage,
Nong Paeo came to Mae Sariang for the long weekend. I love this
girl. She's so cute and loving, she gave away almost half the candy
she was given. We went to my host dad's fruit farm on the 31st, and
on the long car ride she took my arm put it around her and then
cuddled into me. No better compliment could be given. We met friends
at the farm and barbequed kabobs and ate sticky rice. I got to swim
in the river that went through the farm even though it was freezing
(it actually gets pretty cold here since it's the mountains). The
little kids were jealous because the current is too strong for them
to swim in. It was a great way to say goodbye to the old year.
I went to my friend's house for a small party with her family. We
ate and sang karaoke, my friend Maria in Taiwan said about Taiwan
"you can't have a party here without karaoke." It's true in Thailand
too.
December was kind of a rough month in a lot of ways; I really missed
my family, around Christmas (but was fine on Christmas day), I felt
frustrated a lot with how little I'd felt I'd done, which got over
mostly, and the month it got ended well. I'm still liking school,
and I'm getting very close the my host family. I'm already in love
with my host nephew Pee Pee as well as Nong Paeo.
Happy New Year and thanks everyone! Love you. |
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November and October
Wow, I've been so busy.
I'll start with Halloween. I talked to my school during the
morning assembly about Halloween. I put on my normal school
uniform and put on ghost like make up when I got to school. Did I
mention Thais are terrified of ghosts? It was fun, I really scared
the bejeezuz out of some people without trying. I'd just turn
around, forgetting I had the make up on and the people behind me
would be wide eyed with fear. It was great to get some really good
scares on Halloween, although I don't think the Thais were so
thrilled with it.
The week of Halloween was also the Roy Graton festival in
Thailand. Roy Graton is on the two days before the full moon in
November. On the full moon you put little floats made of banana
leaf and stalks, called Graton, into the river to both say thank
you to the river and appologize for any damage. During the week
everyone was getting ready for the parade on Sunday (the full
moon), our school had a huge float which everyone helped put
finish. A lot of my friends got to Thai dance on it. I walked next
to the director of the school. I'd gone to the school to borrow a
Thai dress from my teacher and she took me to the Thai dance/art
room where the dancers were putting on make up. They decided I
ought to wear make up too, they put my hair up and put a fake bun
on my head like them. The parade ended (after three hours) at the
river where we put our graton in.
This was also the day I had my second funniest Thai mistake. I
told my host mom "Nuu ja bpai haa puan tam gra toy." or "I'm going
to my friend's to make drag queens," instead of make graton.
Then there was Thanksgiving. We have our Rotary meetings Wednesday
night and on Tuesday it was my host mom's birthday and on
Thanksgiving it was my 3rd host sister's birthday. Both my host
sisters have been really curious about lasagna so I decided to
make that instead of turkey for Thanksgiving and I decided to make
pumpkin pie because I love pumpkin pie. Luckily we were going to
Chiang Mai the weekend before Thanksgiving and I could get all of
the ingredients there. Making it was the real challenge. I had to
make pumpkin puree for hte first time and the recipe I had for it
made a ton of puree, and the recipe for two pies only used maybe
1/8 of it. I kept some and gave the rest to the the dogs, who I
learned had a taste for pumpkin. (Interesting fact my province is
the pumpkin capital of Thailand.) The lasagna was stressful since
hte noodles stuck together. My host grandma and sister thought I
was crazy several times during the process, and didn't really
understand what I was doing until I was done. At first my host
grandma thought I was going to stir fry it all together, then she
thought I was going to make soup. I have to wonder if she thinks
all American food starts with boiling some vegetable until it's
soft, because I did that with both recipes. (I had to make the
tomato sauce myself and it seemed easier to boil the pumpkin than
to bake it to make the puree.)
I took them both to the Rotary meeting the night before
Thanksgiving, as a way to say thanks. There was competition
though; because it was Pii Mim's birthday, they made a special
kind of pork where they cook it on the table infront of us. It was
better than the lasagna I have to admit, but everyone liked it.
Even my host aunt and mom who said they didn't like foreign food
said they liked the pie.
I switched host families the day after Thanksgiving. This host
family own a motorcycle garage and parts shop. They're a big
family big family; there's Mae, Pa, Pii Koi, Pii Nom (who are
married) and their son Pee Pee (yes they know what that means in
English), who all live over the shop. Then there's Pii Et and his
wife Pii Ying, they're going to have a baby in January! They live
next door to Mae and Pa. Then there's Pii Nung, the oldest, who
lives across the street. I sleep in Pii Nung's house but I spend
almost as much time at the other houses. I like it here, I have
fun talking with my host sisters and playing with Pee Pee.
Thai's an interesting langauage and I'm enjoying learning it. When
I first started learning Thai I thought all Thais had a really
good ear because they'd correct me over really little (to me)
differences in pronunciation. Then I started helping my friends
with their English homework. I'd dictate to them "all" and they'd
write "are." They'd say "shoes" instead of "choose" and I could
tell they didn't really hear the difference when I corrected them.
I started to understand that they just had a good ear for their
own language like I do for mine. Just a funny observation.
I just got back from a trip with the other YES in our district.
I'll be sure to write about that soon, I meant to get this email
out before I left.
Thanks everybody once again.
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Northern Trip
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Please note this post was written in installments.
Alright, dang I got a lot to type about. Rotary arranges three
trips for us exchange students and I just got back from the
first one, the Northern Trip. I've got tons of photos (in
addition to the ones from the first few months of the exchange)
to post when I get home. Right now I'm in Phrae, at my fellow YE
Christine's house. We're both catching up on emails and blogs
ect. It's been a busy and until recently sleepless two weeks.
Two days after the N. Trip ended we had Rotary Youth Leadership
Awards Camp (RYLA Camp). Then I went to Phrae, my host mother's
hometown, and met up with my host mom and sister. We'll be
staying until Sunday morning and then we go to Chiang Mai for
another dentist appointment (Nong Toy has braces).
About the YE's, there are about 20 of us, not all came on the
trip though. There are seven American YE's, Elizabeth, Ryan,
Tibor, Christine, Bud and I went on trip, and Micheal and Taba
didn't go on the trip. Taba is from Hawaii and just got to
Thailand the last day of the trip. There's one Canadian, Jenny.
Five Mexicans, Sara, Zhayra, Polly, Heriberto, and Anahi, who
are all really nice. Then one Brazilian, Leandro. That's all the
Americans. From Europe there is Maxime (Max) from France, and
two German girls Judith and Frederike, their English is amazing,
sometimes I think Judith sounds Australian. Speaking of the
country/continent, there's Laura our lone Aussie who's been here
for 8 months already (Australia does Youth Exchanges differently
because of the school year). Then there are three Koreans, the
twins Pim On and Han Lee, and Ing On who, like Laura, has been
here 8 months. None of the Koreans speak much English, but
they're learning it as well as Thai really well. There's still
one Russian boy coming soon, don't know his name.
The first thing we did on the trip was go to the Elephant
Training Center. We saw the elephants do tricks and paint
(they're pretty good too). Then we went for an elephant ride. It
was two to an elephant and Christine and I went together. They
had this kind of box on top of the elephant with a metal back,
and armrests which a seatbelt harness attatched. At first I
thought the harness was for little kids who'd want to jump off
the elephant, then the elephant started walking. The word for
elephants is surreal. They're huge, but friendly, beautiful and
ugly at the same time, they look intellegent, but it's hard for
me to believe they actually see anything because their eyes are
crossed all the time. Surreal is also the word for riding an
elephant. They look graceful, but you get thrown around a lot
when your on top of one. I wasn't expecting that and was very
glad for the harness. It was a lot of fun being so high and on
top of a living thing, in fact the biggest living thing I've
ever seen.
One of the best experiences I had on the trip was getting in a
van with mostly native Spanish speakers and an American (Tibor)
and a Frenchman (Max) who both spoke good Spanish. I was the
only one who didn't speak Spanish. I could understand the
subject of the conversation usually, which surprised me. I
understood a lot, but couldn't say anything. It was a lot of
fun, they put on really good Spanish music, we sang along, and
talked over the music. I learned some Spanish (most of which
I’ve forgotten already). If I had something to say I'd just say
it in English (all but two in the van spoke fluent English and
the other two understood the basics), but mostly I just listened
and laughed. I tried speaking French-- ooh la la! I can't. I
tried to say a basic French sentence and it came out in Thai. Oh
well, my mom's friend Dr. Peter says it's normal when you're
learning a new language. I hope my French will come back.
The other highlight of the trip was doing a homestay at an Akha
hilltribe village. The Akha women wear an elaborate headress
made of silver balls, beads and cloth and a dark blue jacket and
skirt with tons of elaborate embroidery. Or atleast the older
women wear it, most of the kids and all the men in the village
wore western clothes. Most of the people in the village are
illegal immigrants from Burma and are only allowed to be in the
village and the nearby town because they don't have a Thai ID
card. I got to stay with the village's medicine woman, Mae Mii
Na and her family. It was an incredible experience. Mae Mii Na
doesn't speak Thai and it was incredible to learn how to
communicate without words. (I never really got this experience
since I studied Thai before I came.) She was so kind, which
considering all she's been through it's amazing that she could
like a spoiled rich white girl.
After the trip it was waiting two days for RYLA Camp in Chiang
Mai, then two days in RYLA camp. At RYLA they took us to a
really beautiful wat in a mountain. It was really wonderful to
walk around and take pictures. It had lots of rabbit statues, I
don’t know why. I wish I would have asked. Rabbit’s my sign in
Chinese astrology, so it was funny to see. They took us to Tesco
Lotus, the Thai equivalent to Wal-Mart, and we bought a ton of
junk food and ate it that night at the dorm. When RYLA was
finished I went to Phrae where my host mom and sister were
visiting relatives. We stayed three more days and I got to hang
out with three of my favorite YES, Christine, Anahi, and Laura,
as well as Laura’s friend Yana from Germany (she’s a YFU
exchange student).
Now I’m happily back in Mae Sariang. (This was written on
Wednesday the 24th.)
Today was a great day after all of this farang-ness. My first
day back in Mae Sariang, I rode my bike to town (it’s about a
10-15 minute ride). I don’t seem to be able to make this journey
without some kind of bike trouble though. Today one of my
peddles fell off. Luckily it fell off only a few meters from the
bike shop. After that I went to the restaurant of my third host
mom, Mae Paeo. My host sister, Pii Mim was there too (she’s
normally in Bangkok studying law, but it’s vacation time). They
took me to the post office and helped me mail the package. It
was good they came because one thing I had was too big for the
boxes at the post office which meant we had to go buy a box at
another store. I would have had no idea where to go if I even
understood what the men at the post office said. Thai people are
so kind.
After the post office Pii Mim, and I, with a little help from
Mae Paeo, made kanom chan (layer snack). It’s made from rice
flour, some other kind of flour they couldn’t explain what it
was, sugar, fresh coconut milk, and a grass which name I can’t
remember. First I washed the grass, and there was so much of it.
I thought when I started it would take forever, I think it
actually took like 10-13 minutes, when will I learn that if I
actually do things they get done? Then I had to cut it into
little pieces, and grind it with a mortar and pestle. After that
we mixed the other ingrediants together, it was amazing to see
it go from thick batter to almost water. Then we separated that
into two bowls. In one bowl we put the grass in and squeezed the
grass so it turned green. After that we put a coffee cup full
into a pan in a steamer, and let it cook for five minutes. One
layer of green, and five minutes later add a layer of white.
Repeat ad nauseum. It was so good when it was finished though.
Mmm… The whole process of cooking it was so unwestern. It’s
amazing how many different things and ways of doing things in
the world.
After that a group of American tourists (from Memphis of all
places) came in and we gave them some kanom chan (which I
mistakenly told them was kanom chang, which means elephant
snack). Kanom chan looks a little like boogers so there was some
food playing. They were all nice people, but only one two liked
kanom chan, but hey, I didn’t like it the first time I ate it
either.
Then we went with Ing-Ing, the cutest and shyest little Thai
girl, to a little fair the town was having. Mae Paeo won a
stuffed kitty for me. I haven’t named her yet, I love her
despite the fact that she’s pink.
When we were driving to Mae Sariang from Chiang Mai yesterday, I
was thinking about how I didn’t really feel at home in Thailand,
but my life in America felt so far away. (Did I tell you all how
I forgot I had had a job in America for awhile? This summer
feels as if it happened a few years ago.) Now that I’m back in
Mae Sariang, in my own room with Thai TV coming in from the
other room I feel at home.
Thanks so much for everyone supporting me and especially the
Rotary for giving me this opportunity. I'm really happy to be
doing this, even when I'm miserable (which isn't much of the
time).
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Summary of August
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Hey Everyone,
My luggage has been found! We went to Chiang Mai this weekend to
pick it up (and for Nong Toy to go to the dentist). The zipper’s
broken, but everything’s there.
In Chiang Mai we shopped for things to decorate the house with, Mae
Dtim and I went on Saturday and hardly got anything. Pa Dem,Mae Dtim
and Nong Toy went on Sunday and came home with the car filled! (I
went walking around Chiang Mai, I was around the river and the old
town wall, suoy maak (very beautiful).) I took a dukduk (tricycle
taxi) home. My first time in one.
In other news I have tasted durian. The taste is OK, but the smell
is terrible and so is the after taste.
I’ve started school. Which is OK, I get tons of attention. Boys will
yell out my name but when I look in their direction they all laugh.
Mai ruu tammai. (I don’t know why.)
Oh, I have a Thai name, two actually, Meo (my nick name, it means
cat and sounds like mayo, and no uses it) and Buatong, which is what
people call me. A buatong is a wild sunflower that grows in our
Province. Too bad I’m not blond or it would be perfect. (actually
I’m so glad I’m not blonde, I’d never be left alone if I were.) The
kids here are really nice and my friends help me a lot. I never have
any idea where I’m going
I had orientation the weekend after I got here, it was in Phrae. It
was fun as get togethers with other exchange students are. It was
more, “Hey here’s the other YE’s in our district! Make friends!”
than training which was great because I was/am still jetlagged. We
visited a Wat (temple) whose name I can’t remember and the
governor’s mansion. The governor’s mansion was really pretty with
lots of antiques and a torture chamber in the bottom which was funny
until I realized hundreds of people where tortured and died there.
We stayed with my host mom, Mae Dtim’s mother, my Yaai or grandma.
I think I’m going to try to join the girls’ footbawn team. I’ve got
so much energy at times and I had so much fun len footbawn (playing
football) last week in school.
I've met all of my host families, and they're all nice. I see my
third one a lot since they own a restaurant. My third host mom is
funny and lets me help cook my dinner. Sanook (fun).
I love you all but I only miss Jazzie. My poor kitty cat. Please
give her lots of lovin' for me. |
| 8/15/2006
9:46 PM Greetings from Thailand |
a-wat-di-ka! (Hello.) Blog spot isn't working right now so I'll
post this there later.
I'm safe and sound in THailand. I got here Sunday afternoon and
was greeted by my 1st and 3rd host parents and other Rotarians. I
found out one of my bags is MIA and of course it's the one with my
host parent's presents. My host mom and dad helped me file a
report about it and have been checking up about it.
My host parents and Nong Toy (my little sister) have been great.
Really nice and very =helpful. Yesterday my Pa drove me around to
the four wat you're so supposed to see in Mae Sariang. Just very
quickly, we'll come back as a family to see them more in detail.
Most were on hills so he'd use it as an opportunity to show me
places around town so I wont get lost when I go around on my own.
We spent Sunday and Monday in Chiang Mai where they
have the cutest house. Their house is by a lot of their friends
(who I got to meet) and it's a hexagon! THe fact that its shaped
like a hexagon is very convienent for me b/c if I'm lost I can
just say, hexagon house and people know where it is. Sunday night Meh
(mom) and Nong Toy took me to the dtaa-laat yen (evening market)
where they had the coolest crafts. I saw the fatest dog ever there
(maa uan maak!) That's where most of the pictures are from.
Monday Nong Toy took me with her friend Nong Nai to the bookstore
and the Chiang Mai mall. We were going to sing Karoke there but it
was full.
After that we went home to Mae Sariang and got there late at
night.
Their house in Mae Sariang is very nice. The kitchen is on a
terrace and that's where we spend most of our time. The weather's
nice, cooler than it is in Arkansas in August.
The mountains (puu kao) are really beautiful there are lots of
differnt kinds of trees so there very textured. We live near the
Uan River bridge and rice paddies nd my school, where I'm going to
go later today to make my schedule.
I'm sorry I can't figure out how to share my photos and my blog
isn't working but there's just too many other things to do.
I love you all and hope things are good back there.
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