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Hosting A Rotary Youth Exchange Student

Long-Term
Inbound Program District
6110 International Youth Exchange Program Rotary
District 6110 Website Homepage Rotary
International  We are
always eager to find host families. If you are located in the area of
District 6110, whether a member of your family is a Rotarian or not, and you
are interested in becoming a host family, please send an e-mail message to
Lee Griffin. Potential host families will be interviewed by representatives of the Rotary
District and the host Rotary Club as part of the selection process, to help
assure a rewarding experience for the exchange student and for the host
family.

Hosting a Rotary Youth Exchange Student
can be as rewarding as being one. Involvement with an Exchange Student
challenges a host family to become familiar with another culture, while
providing the opportunity to share a young student's hopes and ambitions.
The challenges and opportunities promise to enrich the lives of every
member of your family. It is an opportunity to make a personal
contribution to advancing world understanding while expanding your own
horizons and those of your family. And it is a change to build a
relationship with someone special, someone will will be a part of your
life for a long time to come.
If you have children of your own, you
can appreciate the responsibility that comes with hosting a Youth Exchange
Student. You will be expected to provide parental guidance and supervision
for the student as well as room and board during his or her stay in your
home. To facilitate the student's assimilation into the culture and to
allow more families in the community to participate in the Youth Exchange
experience, long-term exchange students usually stay with three or four
families, for three to four months each, during the year of their visit.
What types of families open their doors
to Rotary Youth Exchange? All type. Rotarian and non-Rotarian families -
with young children, grown children or no children at all. All it takes is
the willingness to care and a heart that is ready for a touch of
adventure.
While Rotary International offers
support to local Rotary Youth Exchange programs through publications and
suggested guidelines, each Rotary District and Rotary Club operates the
program independently of Rotary International. Therefore, each District
will have its own specific rules for students to follow. Students accepted
into the program sign and agree to abide by a list of program rules prior
to their departure from home. While the student's hosting Rotary Club will
discuss all program rules with both you and the student, you may wish to
review the program rules with the student yourself to be sure that
everyone has a clear understanding of what is expected. Program rules
consist of common-sense stipulations, such as no driving of motor
vehicles, and the need to obtain special permission for international
travel while on the exchange. In addition, romantic entanglements are
discouraged (although companionship in accordance with cultural standards
in the host county is encouraged).
| What
Does It Take? |
 | A heart large enough to share a portion with
a child from another for a year |
 | A mind open to the different life and culture
that the student with bring with him or her; open to accepting him
or her for his or her differences and not only for the common
humanity |
 | Time to share with the student, especially in
the first days of the exchange before school starts |
 | A share of laughter and gaiety to shrink the
inevitable minor problems which always arise and to strengthen the
bonds of communication |
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Just as there is no perfect exchange
student, there is no perfect host home. Each young person who comes to us
from abroad is an individual; each family is unique. But just as there are
certain criteria which make it more likely that a student will be a good
exchange student, there are certain criteria which make a family more
likely to provide an enjoyable and beneficial experience for the student.
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Warmth: an easy affection within the family and
respect for all members by each other |
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Breadth of interests: a real curiosity about
things outside the home - not necessarily busy or extremely
intellectual, for many students will fit into a more quiet and simple
atmosphere better |
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Flexibility: the family must be secure and
confident enough to be able to adapt their rules to make for room for
individuals |
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Humor: a laugh often bring perspective to a
problem that might otherwise appear to assume undue proportions |
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Motivation: the family must be realistic about
why they want to host an Exchange Student in their home; not because
they think it is something they should do; not as a solution to the
family's own domestic problems; not out of desire for prestige or social
acceptance - all members of the host family must want to participate;
one uncooperative family member can make for an unhappy experience for
all involved |
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Health: if there is a serious emotional or
physical problem in the family, the extra strain of adjusting to a
long-term guest can make for a difficult situation |
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Wealth: the family need not be extremely wealthy,
but there are certain expenses involved and the family must feel
comfortable in meeting those expenses without undue strain |
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Space: the student must have a bed of his or her
own; if a room is to be shared, it should be with a child of the same
sex and of similar age |
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Transportation: the student may not drive, so the
family must be willing and able to see that he or she gets to school and
various other activities with reasonable convenience |
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Religion: differences in religion are rarely a
problem, but the family must be prepared to respect beliefs of others
and not to require participation by the exchange student in their own
church or religious life |
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Chores: the exchange student should not be
treated as a special guest - the value of the program is the acceptance
by both students and hosts that the student will be one of the family
and not receive any special attention - it is expected that the exchange
student will perform chores as do the other children in the family 
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